I have accepted a challenge from my friend Angie (see her blog at http://www.iorganizeyou.blogspot.com/). I am listing 8 random thoughts about me and will then challenge four friends listed below to comment here on 3 random thoughts about themselves:
a. Terry W.
b. Merri
c. Laura
d. Karen
1. I had the worst complexion in the world from my pre-teen through high school years. I was popular before that but after that I was called "pimples." This was incredibly painful to my psyche and self-image. Makes me sick to even relate this now.
2. I always wanted to see the Great Pyramids of Giza (Egypt) before I died. We were there 11 years ago - although I'm glad I went, it was rather disappointing. Have no desire to go back.
3. From 1964 -1984, I had a best friend. Twenty years of a wonderful, close friendship even though she moved to the West Coast. Then something happened - I'm not sure either of us will ever understand what - but we then had NO CONTACT for the next 20 years. She reached out to me 3 years ago and we're now back in each others' lives. I wish I talked to her more and let her know how much I value our relationship. 4. I don't do housework. And I don't cook except by prior appointment and special request.
5. I always wanted to visit the Greek Isles. Did that also 11 years ago. They are heaven. I want to go back.
6. The best trip I ever took was to Italy (you know you're getting old when you can't remember when you went somewhere) - 9 days with a group of 29 friends on a wine and gourmet food excursion - Rome and south - the Amalfi coast is to die for - hope I get to go back.
7. Two things I always wanted to do - have never done them and probably never will:
i) sky diving
ii) snow skiing
8. All of the above exciting trips I've taken were when I was in health care management. I now own my own business. The current budget does not allow for such extravagance - glad I did it when I could.
Now I hope to hear from each of you that I've e-mailed . . . tag. You're it.
3 Comments:
At Saturday, June 30, 2007 at 5:24:00 AM EDT, Terry Willliams said…
Only three???? Hummmm, OK.
1.As I reflect back on my life I have a lot of things that I am proud of. But of the things that
I will always take pride in is my service to my country in a time in which it was very unpopular.
I joined the Marines in high school after seeing a Marine recruiter at school and being told by one of my high school teachers that I should read a book called "See Parris and Die".
It was a book about recruit abuse at Parris Island SC. After reading it I thought, I have to join now.
I remember the day I told my mom and how she cried because she was afraid I would be killed in Viet Nam. I wasn't, damaged maybe?
2. Something that I struggle with is the death of my parents and feeling alone. They are both buried at Ottawa Hills and I drive by there almost daily. I want to stop but I always feel so drained when I leave. I often feel guilty that I don't stop more often. In fact I've teared up just thinking about it.
3. I still talk to my very first real girlfriend. We don't talk often but every 3 to 4 months. We have a bond that will never be broken. She wound up marrying my best friend at the time. I was the his best man.
Him and I don't speak anymore. Also the bond I was speaking of is our friendship, no I never slept with her. Thought about it, but never did. I think I'll call her today...............................................not for that.
At Saturday, June 30, 2007 at 7:42:00 AM EDT, Merri said…
In looking at Terry's contribution, I'm reminded to stick with 3 things:
1. I just finished 10 sun salutations. I once learned them when I did joint work with the University of Findlay's Theatre professor. At the time, it looked like she was doing yoga (she was), and that to me meant, she was exercising a Buddhist or Muslim prayer ritual (she wasn't). Guess that says a lot about my sheltered thinking.
Today, I know that these sun salutations - stretches and breathing exercises - make me feel extremely flexible and ready for the day. I love them. Even on my day off!
2. I'm a real kid at heart. I can tell, because when I'm around kids, my "kid valve" opens and everything that comes out of my mouth is a quip, one that actually produces laughter instead of sarcasm.
Once I buy my "comfort" bicycle, I'll feel even more like a kid, on a regular basis.
3. It is so easy for me to cry.
Years ago I realized that I am sensitive to certain needs around me. I can tell by the energy of the space I'm in that moments of truth are happening, and that I'm present to make a difference during those moments.
My minister once told me, "Merri, pay attention to the things that make you feel this way. Notice what kind of things give you these sensations."
I haven't figured it all out yet, because that's intellectual. What I get is spiritual - soulful. I just know to become present and concerned.
Sandy, you trigger many of these moments for me.
merri
At Saturday, June 30, 2007 at 9:47:00 AM EDT, Angie Weid said…
Sandy, You ROCK!!
Thanks for excepting my challenge. You made me smile.
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